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Selecting the perfect photographer for your Cape May wedding is an essential decision in capturing the cherished moments of your special day. With a multitude of talented professionals in the industry, finding the right fit that aligns with your vision and style can be quite a challenging task. From intimate beach weddings to elegant ballroom affairs, the photographer you choose will play a pivotal role in crafting lasting memories. In this comprehensive guide, we will delve into the intricate process of selecting a photographer for your Cape May wedding, providing valuable insights and tips to help you make an informed decision that will beautifully encapsulate your love story.
Choosing Your Perfect Cape May wedding Photographer
Interpreting Your Wedding Vision in New Jersey
Understanding your wedding vision is the first step in choosing a New Jersey wedding photographer who can truly capture the essence of your special day. Whether you’re planning a grand celebration in one of the luxurious ballrooms of Avalon or a serene beach ceremony on the shores of Cape May, your photographer needs to comprehend and connect with the atmosphere and emotion you wish to evoke. The right South Jersey wedding photographer will not only have the skill to take stunning photos but also the sensitivity to understand the unique narrative of your love story. They will listen attentively to your desires, offer creative suggestions, and collaborate with you to ensure that your wedding photos reflect your personal style and the joy of your New Jersey wedding.
Expertise Matters: Quality South Jersey Wedding Photography
When it comes to immortalizing your wedding day, the expertise of a South Jersey wedding photographer is non-negotiable. A professional with extensive experience in wedding photography brings more than just technical skills to the table; they possess an intuitive understanding of lighting, composition, and timing to create captivating images that stand the test of time. Look for a portfolio that showcases a diverse range of moments, from candid laughter to the intricate details of the wedding attire. The best New Jersey wedding photographer will demonstrate a mastery over the craft that translates into vivid, emotion-rich photographs. This level of quality ensures that every photograph from your day tells a part of your story, whether it’s an intimate exchange or a grand gesture, with the clarity and beauty it deserves.
Why Location Knowledge Counts: Cape May, Asbury Park, and Beyond
A photographer’s familiarity with the location of your New Jersey wedding can make a significant difference in the outcome of your photos. Knowledge of the local areas like Cape May, Wildwood, and other NJ wedding destinations provides the photographer with a unique advantage. They are aware of the lighting nuances, the most picturesque backdrops, and the hidden gems that can turn a simple photo into a work of art. Whether it’s the sunsets in Cape May or the Murals in Asbury Park, an experienced NJ wedding photographer can navigate these environments efficiently, saving precious time during your wedding day. They can also offer valuable advice on the best times and locations for your portraits. This insight is particularly beneficial for beach weddings in New Jersey, where the tides and tourist crowds can impact your photography schedule.
From Cape May to Jersey Shore: A Photographers’ Canvas
Reliving Your Beach Weddings through Pictures
Beach weddings in New Jersey offer a unique opportunity for stunning wedding photography. The expansive sands, the rolling waves, and the changing colors of the sky in Cape May or along the east coast of the Jersey Shore create a magnificent canvas for your wedding pictures. A skilled NJ Beach wedding photographer knows how to capture the serene beauty of these coastal locations while focusing on the intimate moments between you and your partner. They understand how to use the natural light to its fullest, ensuring your photos have a soft, romantic quality that echoes the tranquil setting. When you look back on your wedding album, the combination of the photographer’s expertise and the natural allure of the beach setting will allow you to relive the magic of your beach wedding day after day.
Capturing the Romance: Ballroom Weddings in NJ
Ballroom weddings in New Jersey call for a photographer who can artfully capture the elegance and grandeur of the occasion. The opulent interiors, with their sparkling chandeliers and sophisticated decor, provide a rich backdrop for timeless wedding photography. A seasoned New Jersey wedding photographer will have the expertise to navigate the dynamic lighting and capture the romance of your ballroom setting. They aim to encapsulate the luxury of the environment while focusing on the emotional depth of the wedding party and guests. From the first dance to the joyous celebrations, the photographer’s attention to detail ensures that the splendor of your ballroom wedding is immortalized. With each photograph, the grandeur of the occasion is woven into your narrative, creating a story as enchanting as the setting itself.
Booking Your Dream NJ Wedding Photographer
Let’s Talk: Scheduling a Consultation
Scheduling a consultation with your potential New Jersey wedding photographer is a critical step in ensuring you’ve found the right match. It’s an opportunity to meet and discuss your vision, expectations, and any specific requests you may have for your wedding day. During the consultation, you can ask questions about their style, approach, and how they handle the unpredictable nature of a wedding day. It’s also the perfect time to review their portfolios and get a feel for their work firsthand. A face-to-face meeting allows you to gauge their personality and confirm that they’re someone you’ll be comfortable with during your wedding. Remember, the best Cape May Wedding photographer will not only take great photos but also contribute to a positive and seamless experience. So, let’s talk and start crafting the photography plan that will tell the story of your day.
Bokeh Love Photography: A Legacy of Attention to Detail and Passion
At Bokeh Love Photography, we understand that your wedding photos are more than just pictures—they are a legacy of your love story. Our focus on attention to detail and passion for storytelling sets us apart as a premier New Jersey wedding photographer. Our work is characterized by a warm, romantic glow that is the signature of our commitment to excellence. We pride ourselves on capturing the small, intimate moments that might otherwise go unnoticed, as well as the grand, sweeping emotions of the day. With every click of the shutter, we’re creating the heirlooms you’ll treasure for a lifetime. We invite you to explore our gallery and see the difference that a dedicated, passionate artist can make in preserving the memories of your South Jersey wedding. Let us be a part of your journey and help you celebrate your love with photographs that will stand the test of time.
Check out this amazing Cape May Wedding Proposal!
March 21, 2024
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Cape May is for lovers! It’s also the best location for a Sunny Cape May Surprise Proposal! I was so excited when I was contact by their friend who was planning this surprise proposal!
It was an absolutely gorgeous day! The birds were actively nesting in the dunes, the Johnathan Livingston Seagulls were soaring along the horizon, and the sea creatures were even washing up on the shore! (Of course we MAY have helped one special horse shoe crab get back to the water!) They must have all wanted to see the big event! (Sorry, that’s my fairy tale side coming out just knowing it would be a day to remember!)
Their friends set up this beautiful setting on the Cove in Cape May. Complete with a picnic basket, champagne, and even some bug spray… just in case those little buggers came out to bite! It was all planned out and even had the most beautiful blue Hydrangea flowers and blanket to match. It was perfect! There is no better place than Cape May to confess your love for that special person in your life. From the moment I saw them walking up the beach, I just KNEW she would say yes! And she did, and it was a beautiful moment! I always feel so warm inside when I get to witness and be a part of something so magical.
Congratulations to the both of you!
May your lives be long, happy and healthy today and all of the tomorrows in your years to come as husband and wife! Until then, HAPPY WEDDING PLANNING! CHEERS!
If you are preparing to propose to that special someone, think about planning a Sunny Cape May Surprise Proposal! You will not be disappointed with the beautiful sandy beaches, view of the historic Cape May lighthouse at the Cove, and the animals all around you! It’s as if the world stops for just one moment to focus on you. After all, you deserve a happy ending and a little magic!
Check out some more surprise proposals in Cape May:
Congress Hall Marriage Proposal
Cape May Winery Proposal
September 3, 2020
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Congratulations! You are planning your wedding and you are at the stage to book your photographer! This is such a fun and exciting time. You have made the decision to marry that one person that completes you. So, when selecting your wedding photographer there are certainly things to consider.
What is their style and does it match who you are as a couple?
What do I mean by this? I don’t necessarily mean light and airy or rich and romantic. While, yes those are styles of photography, I am more so asking the question of does the photographers style of shooting align with your vision. Allow me explain that deeper. Does your photographer give you and your new partner the space you need to feel each other love, emotions and all of the things that happen on wedding day? Do they get up close and personal, and does that sit well with you? Does your photographer give you instructions, or do they allow you to be organic? These are all questions that you need to ask yourself, your partner and your potential photographer.
Does the photographer use lighting, and do you need lighting?
Lighting is such an important aspect to consider when Selecting your wedding photographer. It is a good idea to ask any potential photographer if they have a lighting kit, and what is in it. You don’t really need the specifics of brands and all of those things, but it’s good to know if they have more than one flash, and if they have any creative gel colors in case you want something creative in the evening. A photographers lighting kit is not uplighting for your reception. That is an extra that your DJ should cover, but it is not always included. Definitely discuss this with your DJ, I recommend purple. It always looks gorgeous! Getting back to photographer lighting, let’s say for example it is a rainy day and you cannot venture outside for your portraits. In this instance, your photographer should be able to set up lighting indoors and be able to continue your day smoothly without any hiccups!
Is an album included, can you purchase one after, and will they help with designing it?
Your wedding album is what you are going to remember your day with. These printed memories are an heirloom that will get passed down to your children, they are your legacy. You are not just printing pictures, but you are showing your family what love is, and how they too can have what you have. Loving someone is the best tradition you can pass down to your children. Love, after all, will conquer everything else. Having a photographer that can sit with you and help with the design process is very important. The last thing you want is designing your album to be a hassle. Also, having the versatility of being able to buy one after is always a great option, but don’t wait too long!
Does the photographer care about your wedding?
This sounds like a silly thing to wonder about doesn’t it? I will tell you, there are photographers who just care about booking another wedding. Selecting your wedding photographer is hard, but asking certain questions will point you into the direction of the photographer who really cares. So, what questions should you ask? You could start with, ‘How long have you been a photographer, and is this your passion?’ A photographer that is passionate about photography will answer this question as if they’re talking about their very own baby. I know, for me, photography is like breathing – I can not go a day with out it. So on wedding day, I know I will share the emotions that you are feeling, because I am so happy that I am able to document this special time in your life.
Selecting your wedding photographer, the final decision!
If you think you’ve come to a point in your wedding planning that you are truly vibe with a photographer and you want to make it official, don’t wait! Chances are if you love them, someone else does too. Dates get booked faster than you can say “I’LL TELL YOU WHAT I WANT WHAT I REALLY REALLY WANT!” (yes, that was a Spice Girls reference, don’t judge me). But really, when you find your photographer, book them, don’t wait. Photographers will save your wedding date for roughly 1 week from you contacting them, so when you’re ready, make haste!
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June 9, 2020
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Wedding planning can be stressful, but it doesn’t have to be! I have compiled my favorite wedding planning books for you to take a look at. They go over things like wedding etiquette, timelines on when to send out invitations, book your vendors, and more! Check it out below!
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- Emily Post’s Wedding Etiquette – Emily Post was a phenomenal woman, who knew about all things etiquette. If you’re going to learn about it, she is the one to learn from! This is an amazing book that will go over everything you need to do or plan from your engagement up until your wedding day. It goes over engagement announcements, how to word invitations, what to wear and when to wear it, traditions, parties, your ceremony, reception and even the thank you’s and so much more.**Also, if you’re interested in history, Emily Post is the 19th cousin 2 times removed to Charles William Post, Founder of Post Cereals, and also, the person who my college was named after – C. W. Post University, now known as Long Island University!
- Erin Condren Wedding Planner – I adore Erin Condren. Her agenda’s are LIFE and her wedding planning books are so much more than than just a planner! It comes with custom stickers that say “I DO” “CELEBRATE” “IMPORTANT” and “REMINDER”. Throughout the planner, you will also see quotes that will light you up! I save these and frame them on my walls! It also had both the calendar view and the weekly view, and enough space for you to write notes, mark dates, make note of your rehearsal meal AND reception meals, the types of alcohol you will be having, a wedding planning timeline to follow etc.
- OH, SH*T JUST GOT REAL – Okay, sometimes wedding’s are so stressful that you just need to open up and let that humor fly in. This planner does an amazing job at having making you giggle, but the inside is all business! A ton of spreadsheets at your fingertips to fill in like mad libs! Because let’s be real, who doesn’t love filling in mad libs? You can write your ideas for theme, venue, colors, music, reception, etc. You can also fill in categories with budget, actual cost, and balance owed. It even has a wedding contact list for your vendors (Only thing I dislike is they don’t have Photographer written in… so you’ll have to write photographer in yourself. I recommend a pink sparkly gel pen so I stand out, because of course you’re booking me, right? :::wink wink::: ) But seriously, this is a cute planner and does the job if you’re too busy to make your own spreadsheets. it even has a ton of pages for your guest list, and blank lined pages for you to write all the notes your heart desires!
- Essentials Wedding Planner Stickers – Yes, I added stickers to the list haha. The reason why, is because sometimes you just want to play with stickers. You’re planning a wedding, and these are wedding themed! So yes, buy them, and have fun, because you’re allowed to have fun and these little things make us smile and ALSO, really do help stay organized!
- Storied Weddings – This book is absolutely gorgeous. If you want to be swept away with emotions, and what kind of images you could have on your wedding day, then this is the book for you. Actually, if your child is getting married, if you aren’t getting married, or if you know someone who is getting married and just love weddings, then this is also the book for you. It looks nice on the coffee table, and had the content to blow anyone away between great typography and dreamy images, ya know and fabulous tips to help you on your way to planning your big day!
- Wedding Planner & Journal Organizer – I know I have quite a few planners on here, but I am hoping you find one that meets your needs. This one is really special. It is not only beautiful, but it comes with 20 labels to propose to your wedding party, two wedding day cards for you and your fiance to write each other love notes (complete with envelopes), and even a guestbook section. It works as a nice gift and a keepsake of your wedding day. There is even a page about dresses and the cut of each neckline (sweetheart, scoop, illusion, off shoulder) and the skirt style as well (trumpet, a-line, tea-length, mermaid).
- Equally Wed – There are so many books out there for planning weddings that are centered around the “bride and groom”. This book, of course has the to-do lists that every engaged couple needs, in addition to very important resources on how to handle certain challenges that an LGBTQ+- couple may face, like how to deal with less than supportive family members.
- His & Her Vow Book – This is a very simple his & her vow book for your wedding day. These photograph so nicely, and it’s a lot better than holding a folded piece of paper. They are wonderful memories to look back on, and will easily slip right into your nightstand to re-read over and over again the words your husband/wife read to your on wedding day.
- 3 Pc Rose Gold Diamond Pens – With so many things to write down, you should probably enjoy writing with this fancy diamond pen! Yes, there is a huge diamond on the end of the pen! I actually own these, and I’ve been married since 2013. No shame here, I love them!
- A Great Party – One of the wedding planning books that you need to read, is this one right here! Bryan Rafanelli has been voted one of the best wedding planners in the world, by Vogue. He’s planned tons of events and weddings for high profile clients and is known for throwing parties that you will never forget! (Including Chelsea Clinton’s wedding and many events for President Obama!) Even if you don’t was a huge party, you will definitely pick up one or two things (or 10 or 20) from this book!
I hope you enjoyed this week’s Top Ten Tuesday – ‘Wedding Planning Books’. Subscribe to our mailing list and be sure to come back every Tuesday for more amazing Top Ten’s!
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March 24, 2020
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Happy Late St. Patricks Day to everyone! My family definitely celebrates St. Paddy’s Day full force. We are Irish but ALSO, my oldest daughter is an Irish Dancer! This past weekend she was supposed be dancing in the Philadelphia Irish Parade, but due to what is going on in the world right now, it was cancelled, much like other events and gatherings. So, to back it up a few days, and continue the Paddy’s Day celebration (even though we ARE a few days late…) let’s check out this weeks Top 10 Tuesday!! Whether you are getting married here in the United States or in Ireland (God willing), there are a few Irish Wedding Traditions that you may want to follow. Take a look at my top 10 favorite wedding traditions from Ireland below!
- Shrove Tuesday – Irish weddings were commonly held on a weekday, during “Shrovetide”, or the days preceding Lent. No weddings are allowed during the 40 days of lent! The most popular day is the day before Ash Wednesday, called “Shrove Tuesday”.
Monday for wealth, Tuesday for health, Wednesday the best day of all, Thursday for losses, Friday for crosses, And Saturday no luck at all.
- Claddagh Rings – These rings feature two hands clasping a crowned heart. They symbolizes love and loyalty and are worn as engagement rings and wedding bands. Take a look at this gorgeous white gold engagement ring here that features a diamond. You can learn all about these rings here: Claddagh Meanings. You can wear the Claddagh many different ways to convey your relationship status.
- Wearing a Blue Dress – Would you wear a blue wedding dress? Blue dresses are stunning! The color blue was once seen as the symbol in virginity, even though white is seen as the color for purity; Irish brides were often seen wearing blue dresses. Photographing a blue dress on wedding day, would be absolutely beautiful.
Who will be wearing a blue gown in 2020?
- Proposing on Leap Year – According to legend, a young woman was upset that the men she liked were too shy to ask for her hand in marriage. Because of this, St. Patrick gave her his blessing so that women could propose on ONLY the leap day of the leap year.
So, we just had a leap year, did anyone propose to a man?
I’d love to shoot your wedding! Let’s chat!
- Wildflowers In Braided Hair – Keeping with tradition, you will often find Irish brides wearing wildflowers woven through their long braided wedding day hair. Not only does it look darling, but it also stands for as a symbol of feminine power! Additionally, bridesmaids or flower girls could wear flower crowns, but the bride herself cannot wear a flower crown because it would be considered very bad luck!
I couldn’t love this anymore!
- To Tie the Knot – This saying actually has a Celtic origin, during ancient Irish wedding ceremonies where both the bride and the groom’s hands are bound together with a ribbon. This is called a ‘handfasting’ ritual, signifying their union and strength of their love. This is a tradition that I love to photograph. It slows things down a bit, as a result we can really enjoy the couples bond.
- Sixpence in the Shoe – The sixpence was meant to act as a good luck charm and a way to ward off evil spirits. I have definitely seen brides do this, and it’s a very lovely detail to photograph.
I hope I see more traditions like this come back!
- Ringing the Wedding Bells – Like the sixpence in the shoe, the ringing of the wedding bells was seen as a way to get rid of evil spirits on the wedding day.
They’re also very beautiful to listen to and photograph rather nicely. They’re also a very sweet favor for your guests.
- Irish Lace – In Ireland, dresses look like dresses everywhere else in the world. However, one distinctly Irish touch is Irish lace. Very often it is used on the dress itself, or as a handkerchief or in the veil.
I have seen this given to the bride as a gift by her parents, or to the parents from the bride.
- Irish Dancing – What’s a wedding without some Irish Dance! I know when my daughter grows up, she will be dancing at her wedding, and you better believe she will need some custom bridal ghillies!
Do you have a favorite Irish Tradition? I’d love to hear about it!
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March 17, 2020